Thursday, January 21, 2010

Preggers




28 weeks and counting.... I can't believe how fast this pregnancy has flown by! In the hectic flurry of taking care of sean's eyes I decided I wanted a "known" factor in our lives, and that we could find out the sex of our baby (Cody always wanted to find out and graciously left the decision up to me). I had been leaning toward not finding out, but changed my mind at the last minute in an attempt to gain some control over our life right now. And...



Sean will have a baby brother :). Two boys in less than two years in the Groeber home! Life is hectic and joyful for us right now, and I only anticipate more of both. Obviously, there are benefits to either a boy or a girl, and I *honestly* did not have a preference, but when the ultrasound lady told me it was a boy, I was overcome with joy at the thought of these two little brothers pal-ing around. I have yet to make it through an ultrasound for any of our babies without crying.


In the meantime, I have been "eating everything in sight" according to Cody. Hey, when else in life is it socially acceptable to eat anything and everything you want whenever you want it? Besides, the first half of my pregnancies tend to be pretty heavy on the morning (ahem, all day) sickness, so I'm making up for those months of misery now.

As for Sean, if you ask him where the baby is or where his brother is he runs over to me with a big grin and pats my belly. Here's a shot of him the other day saying "goodnight" and snuggling with the baby. He is too sweet. That's all for now, I have some cookies 'n cream ice cream in the freezer calling my name....

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Thank You, St. Lucy

Some of you may be aware of the anxiety and worry Cody and I have been experiencing over the last two months regarding Sean. Thank you all for your prayers on his behalf. For everyone else, allow this to serve as an excuse for our absence from this blog and an update on our life for the last two months. About two months ago Sean started inexplicably crossing his eyes (technically, only his right eye, pictured below).






The pediatrician thought he was having seizures and sent us to a neurologist. The neurologist agreed with the seizure theory and sent Sean for an EEG (pictured directly below) and an MRI (requiring full anesthesia), and started Sean on Keppra, and anti-seizure medicine.



It is not fun watching your baby go through this and feeding him strong anti-seizure medicine everyday. I would cringe everytime we had to give it to him.

The Keppra did nothing for him except cause temper tantrums in our normally sweet and obedient boy. We were frustrated and worried, imagining Sean having petit mal seizures the rest of his life and living from dose to dose of this seemingly worthless medicine. (Both the MRI and EEG were normal).


We were praying every day for him. Specifically, my prayer was that whatever was causing him to cross his eyes was not seizure or brain related, but something in his eye muscle, thus eliminating the need for the Keppra, and for the solution to be "just glasses." The neurologist assured us it was not just his eyes and the opthalmalogist wouldn't be able to help. Then, my grandmother, Emmy, came upon a St. Lucy prayer card in her local Catholic bookstore. St. Lucy is the patron saint of eyes. Even though we were being told the problem wasn't his eyes, I felt pulled to pray to St. Lucy anyway, asking for her intervention. We started praying to St. Lucy with Sean every night, often touching his eyes. We got an appointment with the best pediatric opthalmologist in Charleston. We finally had our appointment last week and the doctor took one look at Sean and diagnosed him as farsighted! He assured us this is common, all the symptoms are consistent, and the solution is "just glasses!" This was a prayer answered. No more Keppra, no more tests, JUST GLASSES!


So as of Monday, we have an adorable little baby in glasses. The minute he puts his glasses on his eyes straighten out. Now he's ready to show all of you his new style:


Just like dad! Sean points to his glasses and says "Dad." It is so sweet.


A little contemplative in his new glasses.

A cow! this thing i've been playing with for the last six months is a cow! I can see it!


His glasses work so well he actually started reading this week. Out loud.

A very happy baby and a very relieved mom and dad! Thank you St. Lucy! Sean is doing great with his glasses. He keeps them on all day and seems to have re-discovered toys and books and his surroundings in general. I actually reintroduced myself as his mother this morning. To think, he never really saw our faces until now! We couldn't be happier.
PS, the glasses in the picture are standard-issue indestructable baby glasses used while he gets used to having them on his face. Our only choice in style was pink, blue or white. In a few months he can graduate to more fashionable glasses, but we think these are plenty cute for the time being.

Monday, November 23, 2009

Hello New Baby!

People often note how much Sean looks like me. If there is any doubt that our next baby will favor Cody in appearance...


Look at these long skinny legs! Just like dad!


New Baby Groeber says hi to the world! and says "i'm only this big."

We were so happy to "meet" you today new baby!

By the way, if you want to know the gender of New Baby, just ask Sean. Cody and I told him tonight and he's free to tell anyone he wants!

Sunday, November 22, 2009

A thought about tables.


The kitchen table in our home (see above) is the same kitchen table my parents bought in 1984 (presumably when they moved to Michigan from Connecticut?). It is simple wood with benches instead of chairs around it. It is distinct in its simplicity. My childhood friends can probably picture it perfectly right now. It is and was the site of all our family meals and countless projects over the years (including the one cody and dad are doing in the picture from last year). It is the same table at which I struggled over times-tables in 3rd grade, the same table at which Defne, Megan and I planned our prom dates in high school, the same table at which many long conversations about college, friends, and future families lasted well into the late night/early morning hours after a dip in my mom's hot tub. I have a picture on our current refridgerator of me grumpily and sleepily eating a huge bowl of cereal in my pajamas at that table when I was about 3 or 4 years old. Some things around the kitchen table haven't changed much. But, it dawned on me today as I sat down at the table to prepare some direct examinations for my first trial that the table has come a long way with me from my first times-tables. Just a thought on this Sunday afternoon.

Friday, November 20, 2009

Toddler Fashion


I have a turtle embroidered on my sweater!


The full ensemb, including matching Baby Legs and Puppy Dog shoes.

Strike a pose.
P.S., Thanks to our cousin Joseph for the sweet little-boy clothes Sean is just growing into!

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Saturday Morning Treats....


cinnamon rolls, coffee (or milk), and reading the paper.

Sick Day

Last week Sean had his first little bug and I stayed home from work with him one day at the height of his stuffed-up misery. Our day was spent cuddling and laying around... he wasn't even interested in his toys. It was nice to hold a tired little baby for a few hours though.


While sick Sean got two treats -- juice, which he never has, but was good for keeping him hydrated, and


watching Curious George on video (usually he only catches it on PBS once a day).